Spitnoodle
Thoughts, Nonsense, Neurosis, Boom
Friday, March 17, 2023
Finally
Friday, February 17, 2023
Beautiful morning blahblahblahs
Sunday, December 04, 2022
List: Ten things that make me happy
Tuesday, August 09, 2022
The Sandman
Saturday, July 23, 2022
More Pathetic Nonsense, probably just stop reading now
Wednesday, May 25, 2022
bad brain
Monday, May 16, 2022
storms
Friday, May 13, 2022
Fierce morning brain stuff
- The idea that I need to censor parts of myself to make others comfortable. If I make someone uncomfortable by being myself, that's probably not the company I need to be keeping.
- The need to be alone to wallow in my thoughts. This never ends well, usually with me overthinking and imagining, writing needy pathetic poetry. Funk dat, I have my tribe of weirdos that love me and who also need another human to pull them back out of themselves. With hugs. Real squeezy hugs. Human physical contact helps keep me grounded.
- Alcohol as a form of medication. I have writing, art, music, books, films, friends, family, cats, laughter, nature, ALL THIS FUCKING WORLD as medication, I don't need to tamp myself down with booze. Not saying I've stopped altogether, but not drinking alone anymore. A few drinks always helps connect my brain to my mouth, though.
- The need to self diagnose myself with bullshit. I have an imbalance. Every fucking person has some sort of imbalance. There is no grown adult who is 100% sane. I don't need to hyper focus on what's wrong with me, or label it. As long as it stays within the realm of neurosis, I'm cool.
Thursday, May 05, 2022
some happy words
Friday, April 22, 2022
List: Yeah, I'm making another list
- Recently learned helpful hint: people become 200x less intimidating once you remember they still have to wipe their asses. Yeah, probably don't picture it, though. I mean, unless you think it will help.
- Buy a bag of goldfish crackers and bite them all in half along their seams. This gives one an enormous sense of accomplishment. Also, don't put them back in the bag after doing this, you really just have to eat them at this point. What are you, five years old? I shouldn't have to tell you this!
- Put on the Electric Six album Fire. Loudly. Like, crank that shit to eleven. Sing and dance furiously to the entire album at least twice through. Forget about doing the dishes. What dishes? The dishes are an illusion. There's only Fire today.
- See all your unfinished paintings? Yeah, girl, pop one on the easel and stare at it for a half hour. Just really get nowhere with it. Now put that shit away and get a fresh canvas out. Paint a lovely shade of orange over the entire thing. Yeah, that's pretty. What next? I have no idea, let's just finish that one later. I'm sick of painting now.
- Start making a list. Get intensely into it for...eh, five minutes. Then... yeah, no, I'm done.
Monday, February 21, 2022
guilty
Tuesday, February 01, 2022
Sitting home with covid
Thursday, August 12, 2021
Meditation Technique
Friday, August 06, 2021
List: Reasons why Jenny is losing her damn mind
- I stopped drinking (more or less). I've had exactly one beer in the span of seven weeks. I had basically been drinking to self medicate my depression, so now I'm just stuck... dealing with it. Unfortunately, so is everyone around me.
- I just ended a 15 year relationship, which has basically been most of my adult life. It's the right decision, but it's hard thinking about the aftereffects and what the future's going to be like. We're also still going to be living together for quite awhile until we get everything sorted out, so...yeah.
- I might be going through early perimenopause. I dunno, I've been having pretty big mood swings and what might be small hot flashes, and it's around the age mom started going through it.
- I'm at long last trying to finalize a divorce that should've happened 18 years ago and realizing how much of a mess I am at an age when I should have my shit together.
- There are adorable hyperactive kittens getting into everything in my house.
- (there are more reasons, but I think I've unpacked enough for now, thank you)
Wednesday, August 04, 2021
big feelings
Friday, July 30, 2021
I got this
Tuesday, July 27, 2021
Feelings suck. Also, no feelings suck.
Sunday, December 29, 2019
resolutions. plural.
Tuesday, October 08, 2019
Time is a missed bus
No matter what good happens, there's always moments where I wake up and just feel buried under every single thing. I look at everything I've done wrong, or the things I shoud be doing or should have done. My stomach is tied in knots. It's raining and gray and I feel like this gross lazy thing that adds nothing to anything. Like I'm wasting my life and everyone else's time.
I know time is an illusion. But it's a very convincing illusion. It takes everyone with it when it speeds on past me. It feels like the rest of the world is on a bus that I just missed and am too tired to catch up with.
Wednesday, July 31, 2019
Excitement
Making a list of things that I find exciting and worth it, for the times that I find nothing exciting or worth it.
A Jenny Jump Start, if you will.
1. Discovering new (or, new to me) music by artists I've never heard of, in a different genre than what I've recently been listening to
2. Reading relatable poetry
3. Furious kitchen dancing
4. Painting something lovely
5. Lighting incense and sitting around listening to records during a thunderstorm
6. Walking through trees (meaning a bunch of trees... not, like... THROUGH A TREE)
7. Playing piano with headphones on and imagining a rapt audience
8. Ghost stories in the dark
9. Writing haikus about fun things
10. Backfloating in the sun
11. Writing lists about things that make me happy
Stopping here for now, until I think of more.
Peace & Love